I had a crush when i was at school its Been 5 years. And then i recently knew he liked me too since 2024 when we started dating.i never talked with any other guys except for him and he also never talked with any other girls. Recently its been 5 months and he ended stuffs with me [his mom died due to cancer recently ] hes a very reserved non chalant type of person who Doesn't like to share his sufferings except hi tends to listen a lot. And im really talkative. And my issue is that i used to drop every drama or tea i knew about others to him only since i didnt even used to talk to my female friends properly. So he recently said im a 3rd person character and out of 10 only 3/4 contexts involve me. Also we are almost about to get into university our admission exams are after 1 month. Im not sure if hes overwhelmed with all this sadness n pressure. He even said i have nothing to offer him and even apologized for saying that. When i asked can we fix stuffs after admission he gave me mysterious answers like its all your choice idk. You know the answer etc etc. I mean he was really rude but i feel that he went through a lot recently. And even said i used to love you but i dont anymore and i wont say why. Now can you give me any proper solution what he means actually is there any possibility to fix it. And should i focus on my admission for now. Also i have a strict family where i cant take my own decisions properly to keep thie rlnthship and my parents to agree i need to get into good uni. Do you think he's pushing me for that cuz he thinks I'll catch his negative energy and will lose my potential. Even said to let him know where i got accepted in uni. [Does that mean he wants to fix stuffs in future if we both are in good state]. Do you think any 3rd person or any girl involved in it cuz i dont think it is my gut doesnt say so knowing him

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I had a crush when i was at school its Been 5 years. And then i recently knew he liked me too since 2024 when we started dating.i never talked with any other guys except for him and he also never talked with any other girls. Recently its been 5 months and he ended stuffs with me [his mom died due to cancer recently ] hes a very reserved non chalant type of person who Doesn't like to share his sufferings except hi tends to listen a lot. And im really talkative. And my issue is that i used to drop every drama or tea i knew about others to him only since i didnt even used to talk to my female friends properly. So he recently said im a 3rd person character and out of 10 only 3/4 contexts involve me. Also we are almost about to get into university our admission exams are after 1 month. Im not sure if hes overwhelmed with all this sadness n pressure. He even said i have nothing to offer him and even apologized for saying that. When i asked can we fix stuffs after admission he gave me mysterious answers like its all your choice idk. You know the answer etc etc. I mean he was really rude but i feel that he went through a lot recently. And even said i used to love you but i dont anymore and i wont say why. Now can you give me any proper solution what he means actually is there any possibility to fix it. And should i focus on my admission for now. Also i have a strict family where i cant take my own decisions properly to keep thie rlnthship and my parents to agree i need to get into good uni.  Do you think he's pushing me for that cuz he thinks I'll catch his negative energy and will lose my potential. Even said to let him know where i got accepted in uni. [Does that mean he wants to fix stuffs in future if we both are in good state]. Do you think any 3rd person or any girl involved in it cuz i dont think it is my gut doesnt say so knowing him

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Hey girl..I feel you..a month ago I was in your shoes and he did go through a lot but that's not excuse to mistreat you, that doesnt excuse him for saying harsh words,my advice for now is give him space and trust me if he really cares for you and loves you, he will come around for now focus on ur admission and this time let him be clear if he wants to fix things for you..