“I had a crush on a guy ( my classmate ) when I was in end of 7th grade , thought it would disappear quickly and my feelings for him kept growing stronger( i never confessed to him) and somewhat in 8th grade everyone started noticing my feelings towards him and started teasing me ( i was quite and studious and he was extrovert and mid in studies ) and he came to know , acted very different , he hated that his friends was teasing with my name but he doesn't show any thing about it , he was talking normally like a frnd sometimes i initiate to talk with him , used my innocence for his incomplete work ,he only liked pretty girls or bold ones until he got pissed off to sit with me slowly realized i was not his type but I felt insecure about my looks and personality at that time but my feelings was increasing and decreasing and high school was menace , i got more obsessed with him like i started to defend his stupid actions my frnds stopped talking to me because of this meanwhile i dared to text him on ig ( thats his public account btw ) like can i text u and he told "nah just get rid of this" and i stopped chasing him , never talked or texted again just he gave me request , liked my stories rarely and vice versa . I completely lost my interest of liking someone again ( turning 21 btw ) and finally i moved on but sometimes i think " what if he loved me like i loved him" , i still check whether he watches my stories , following me or not ( idk why ) am i never moved on? your advices are welcomed ”

Question

“I had a crush on a guy ( my classmate ) when I was in end of 7th grade , thought it would disappear quickly and my feelings for him kept growing stronger( i never confessed to him) and somewhat in 8th grade everyone started noticing my feelings towards him and started teasing me ( i was quite and studious and he was extrovert and mid in studies ) and he came to know , acted very different , he hated that his friends was teasing with my name but he doesn't show any thing about it , he was talking normally like a frnd sometimes i initiate to talk with him , used my innocence for his incomplete work  ,he only liked pretty girls or bold ones until he got pissed off to sit with me slowly realized i was not his type but I felt insecure about my looks and personality at that time but my feelings was increasing and decreasing and high school was menace , i got more obsessed with him like i started to defend his stupid actions my frnds stopped talking to me because of this meanwhile i dared to text him on ig ( thats his public account btw ) like can i text u and he told "nah just get rid of this" and i stopped chasing him , never talked or texted again just he gave me request , liked my stories rarely and vice versa . I completely lost my interest of liking someone again ( turning 21 btw ) and finally i moved on but sometimes i think " what if he loved me like i loved him" , i still check whether he watches my stories , following me or not ( idk why )  am i never moved on? your advices are welcomed ”

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Girl listen  some feelings are untold even I had crushes like this but I never told anyone because if we told what they are expecting is not just love that meant to be last forever for life so I just moved on I would like you to move on from that because if it is your destiny it will come for you if the universe has really taught it will made it at least I know how you feel about your regret about not confusing your feelings about him and your thought what if he had the same opinion on me listen focus on your goals and more to be life just don't be stuck on him and stay happy  ✨