Someone once asked...

“i get rejected multiple times from same person ,he keep talking to me after rejecting me saying we should stay as friends ,we were friends even before,and now he was like , we shouldnt tvnalk anymore there is no future of us we will just get attached we are young, and now i feel bad why i stay friend after getting rejected ,he knows i like him ,still.and now when he said he dont want to be friend anymore , i feel to even approach, i dont know what to do now , it hurts to me ,why i go back after getting rejected , why i even stay friends after confessing!!!!!”

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Someone answered with kindness...

You are not alone , everybody feels the same or atleast most of us. I believe you think you feel good around him or made you think like that. You have to move on, i know its difficult and i know you cant forgot him , also there are what if scenario will run on your mind. But you have to meet new people and have new experience. Make him as aquqitance , nothin more than that, sounda harsh. Be kind to yourself and enjou

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Another soul answered...

I'm sorry for hearing all this I can understand how you'd be feeling right now... And I hope you'll be okay soon enough. First of all, it's never your fault to go back to him even if staying friends after rejection. It was your decision to be friends with him and to fall in love with him. But by what you wrote here I see him as a person who is bored of you and clearly just wanted your attention. Cuz if he was good enough. He would've thought about you feelings too... Not when he rejected, but when he denied even being friends with you. He was done for real... He is bored. And you should try not to keep him in touch with him anymore... Cuz it's hurting now. But if you don't leave him now and he comes back to you... Then he will definitely leave you again in an even worse situation..... Right now as you're hurt. You can focus on your hobbies, and hit the gym, skincare, and workout. And learn new things... Doing new things as your interests... And hangout with your friends (if they are not toxic) and if you don't have friends..... Then you are already enough for yourself... You don't need anyone to depend on..... Cuz trust me, it's an important time of your life so don't waste it on people who doesn't even care about you. You know your worth.. and don't let anyone like them make you question your worth.... I hope you get well soon :) Sorry for my bad english 😭 but I hope you heal soon enough and be happy :)

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