“I get good grades,have nice features,nice voice,caring parents , loving boyfriend..but every single time I think Iam not worthy of love because Iam not fair.Iam an only brown-skinned girl in my family. My brother,my cousins are all fair. So this insecurity was still haunting me. Iam introvert, make 0 friends coz I feel they point out my flaws and I would get hurt.. I loose all my confidence whenever I see a fair-skinned girl. This is the only problem I have in my life I guess.. I hurt myself and the people who loves me just with my sick mindset
.I dont know how to get over it..I ever think I will get out of this insecurity of not being fair-skinned..like it's registered in my mind..only fair people are valued,loved and treated well despite how their character is..Help me get over this insecurity..I really missed many opportunities with thus mindset..I think my biggest enemy is me itself”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Stop living in your head and start taking actions
You are asking an apple to be an orange
An apple cannot be an orange cuz they both are different and an apple has its worth and the orange has its own worth
You don't have to prove anything to anyone
If anyone does not love you for who you are then there's no point in keeping them with us
You are wonderfully and fearfully made
Don't make the ugly opinions of others and yours effect your life cuz at the end of the day you matter alot and you matter to yourself