“I genuinely love someone and have already proposed to him. But for the past year, he has been saying he is confused and something is stopping him from moving forward.
When we meet, he behaves warmly and seems interested, but when we are apart, he becomes distant. I'm always the one initiating conversations.
Recently, he has also stopped replying to my messages and leaves them on seen.
I'm confused whether I should text or call him once more to check if everything is okay, or simply give him space and stop expecting anything. We are colleagues, so we will continue meeting at work.
I love him, and letting go is difficult, but I also don't want to keep holding on to someone who isn't sure about me.
What would you suggest? Should I make one last effort or step back ?”