Someone once asked...

“I found my boyfriend who is heartless ,I mean it when I say it ,but he isn't very bad person too ,today I spoke to him and let him know how much it hurts everytime he does something which he agreed to be right to my suprise And now I got to know that he hurted me more so I can move on and gate him since he has planned to die Looks like he did attempt suicide many times before and now I'm very afraid of what to do I want him to realise what he did to me and I wanna help him to get back normal He says convince me Idk what to do If just hurts when someone u really love do something like this Im blank I cried alot today I explained him everything but he still says that he wants to die Told one of his closest friend about it and she said she will see what is going on in his life It just haunts me.... Can anyone tell me what to do”

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Someone answered with kindness...

The best decision here will be to get him professional help!! If you've tried so much and it still isn't working, it's not your fault. You are also hurting with him, and that's bad. Try to inform someone professional or trusted and get help. He seems conscious of his actions towards you so don't wait for him to realise it. Being in a positive relationship is more important right now. After the break up, try to tell either a professional that he requires help!

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Another soul answered...

Listen to ur heart gurl. If you really love him n think he does too , then go n try to figure it out together. Have a deep chat. If ur heart is too hurt n you don't want him back , then it go. Live ur life happily.

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Another soul answered...

If he has hurted you as well why is he trying to attempt suicide?? If the relationship can be saved by your efforts you can do efforts. See it is clearly visible that the relationship has become toxic now but I know relationships can't be broken that easily. If it's possible to fix it from your side whatever it takes. Then he will see your love he will get back normal. And when he gets back normal try explaining him that he had made you go through a lot. And to continue the relationship he should not repeat whatever he has done. Maybe he will understand you then if not now. Try to save the relationship for now and also talk to him constantly.

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Another soul answered...

Honestly seek help before it's too late,tell a trusted adult,you don't hv to burden yourself with something so heavy and it can be very draining so ya best and quickest solution is to seek help asap

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Another soul answered...

that can really be traumatising for you to . But ig his friend could help u now and still if it doesn't u should reach out to his parents?

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