I feel totally lost in life. Its been three years since i graduated since then started preparing for competitive exam which didn’t workout and tried applying for jobs hard luck. I feel stuck with no way to move forward its feels so suffocating to be at home with no financial freedom. I’ve lost all hopes that my life will get any better

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

First of, well done, Kudos to you for not giving up ! Consider it a job well done, the fact that you're vexed by this situation of yours and are looking for a solution tells me that you're on the right path.

I have faced a scenario precisely similar to this, a competitive exam, a period of non stop effort and futility.

I'd say the issue lies in exposure, given our backgrounds we haven't acquainted ourselves with fresh ideas, concepts and new knowledge, we try to solve new problems with old knowledge. Our mindsets date back to our competitiveness solving PYQs and relentless efforts to get through papers. It made me believe that similar to that, everything in life was achieved by hard work and consistent relentless efforts. Only if I had acquainted myself with smart people and channeled my efforts, would everything make sense.

A change of environment, friends and mindset is all what takes to change your life, over the past few months I've learned about how people make money out of thin air, seen them do it, and believed truly that I can too, and in similar light acquired fresh set of skills and knowledge required to do the same.

It does work out brother, it does.
Faith and fear both have us believe in things we can't see.
Lots of love !