Someone once asked...

“i feel so lost..idk what to do in my life idk my interests or what im good at..its like all my life i have spent being someone who people likes.. shaping myself in their mould..that i have forgotten what my shape was?..lol it really sucks whenever someone asks me what i like and all i can do is think of an answer that would make them like me haha..do i sound desperate? Anyways this thing is fucking me up in career choices too I GENUINELY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO..the only thing i had interest in MY CHILDHOOD DREAM JOB i lost interest in that too”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I think you should try finding out your hobbies, pick one activity a day, and do it for 30 days. Journal it all: what part you liked about that activity, what you learned, etc. And then, in 30 days, you'll have an answer to what you like to do and can continue pursuing that hobby. It will also help you gain deeper insights of that particular field as well. And who knows, maybe you'll find your career path as well? Stop being so harsh on yourself; you are GOOD ENOUGH!!!

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Another soul answered...

I deeply understand what it feels like to not know what to do and shape in a way that ppl will like to me see you is. I go to something too similar to this and honestly I guess I know what to do now. I just have to find my interest. Likewise, you just have to find your interest back, past what ppl think, past what they like, past what others need from you but something that genuinely makes you "you" For career choices? I used to think to be a doctor but right before the day of selecting a career option I switched to psychology. Why? Not bc someone told me to, not bc I was forced but bc I liked it more then the thing I wanted before. All you gotta do is to let the door of uncertainty a little open and keep exploring I hope I helped a lil Wish you best in life :3

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