Someone once asked...

“i feel sick, im tired of these exams, i js wanna skip this period and live a life completely free of stress, i know its literally impossible but the least i can do is dream ab such a life. i feel like im way too delusional and im a hopeful romantic, i want something cute cute to happen to me too. aside from this, i have so many dreams to achieve and sometimes , no actually every minute of my life, i keep doubting myself. its not like i cannot achieve them, BUT WHAT IF. what if, i can never make my parents proud? what if i never get the thing they're wanting from me? what if i mess up my exams? what if, i mess up my only chance? india is definitely not for beginners, bcs as teenagers we have to go through the world's hardest challenge. ugh i hate mylife”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

I believe that the way we see in movies where we have 1 Angel and 1 devil both trying to achieve their motive there is something very similar that goes on in our head and these what ifs are from the devil . If you will stop believing in yourself that the people who actually do will stop as well , not believing in yourself is the first step to not making you parents proud . I know it's not easy to change your mindset all at once or change life in day 2 but you have to keep trying don't let 1 bad day ruin your entire week you didn't do much today but you still have tomorrow to try , take small steps 1st give up on your bad habits and along with it try to maintain the good ones and I hope one day you get all you want . It's honestly feels good telling you this it's also a part of me who keeps doubting on themselve . Let's fight this devil together.

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Another soul answered...

Hmm let me ask you something, why does your 'what if' have to be negative, like why is it 'what if i cant do it' and why not ' what if i can?', what if you do achieve what you dreamt of! what if you do make your parents so so proud!, what if you don't mess up your exams! Listen if we are just going to overthink then instead of imagining where it all goes wrong why not imagine where it all goes right. Take your hands off what you cannot control and get your hands on things you can change..like your thoughts. Wishing you all the best! And I know you are gonna make it! Keep Fighting!

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