Someone once asked...

“I feel like ive been stuck in a relationship where i feel numb but the guy i am with, loves me a lot. I got numb slowly as he verbally abused me one day and when i told him why he did so he told that i paved the path for him to take that step. He tells me that verbally abusing is necessary and happens in a romantic relationship”

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Someone answered with kindness...

just get yourself out of it because well soemtimes people might lose their edge and let things out i am not suggesting that him verbally abusing you is not a right thing thats very wrong but if you really with your heart trust that he is a good and decent guy then you can forgive him for just once (remember only for one time you can give him a chance) but this depends whether you truly love and believe in him but from what you are saying i dont think he is correct for you i know that i am third person in this but anyone who is in assumation that verbal abuse is romantic is just toxic

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Another soul answered...

Heyy kid see listen a relationship is meant to be a safest space created by u and ur partner for eachother by eachother if really a man doesn’t show u some basic need of showing u respect( its bare minimum) then that isn’t a healthy relationship i hope u understand that soon there will be men and there are men who adore love and take responsibilities of their wives or his woman just dnt end up with a wrong guy leave him a guy who respects u deserves u but he doesn’t deserve u nor ur love dnt try to change him u will only make it worse take a breathe and realise ur worth more of all u deserve better me as a man (i am 19 year old btw) would never raise my voice nor abuse her it just doesn’t feel right be well may god bless u have faith and go with the right decision