“i feel like im not as pretty as i used to be since i gained weight the past 2 years and i can never be loved and i keep searching for love in every guy whos half decent and i think maybe they like me too but it never goes anywhere plus im very shy and awakrd so we dont even talk and its so so exhausting ive even tried dating apps but to no luck i dont know how to break free of this cycle and stop caring about men all together”

Another soul answered...

You fill the void in you with guys, and that's not what u need Try to understand what makes you feel not okay by being yourself It can be small, comparison, insecurity.. i think yeah it's insecurity So if you get rid of the insecurity and you're not enough kinda feeling, you won't depend everything on guys You're enough just as you are.. And insecurity can come from in so many ways, it could be internet, friends, family, beauty standards And you're not worthy if you aren't like this is a lie.. Why do you need love from a guy? Why can't u love yourself and make u feel okay? Like do what u like.. do your hobbies.. go out sometimes alone.. or w some friends.. Yeah you're okay, it's just the bad fixed statement which is completely wrong in your mind

Another soul answered...

I know saying "don't give a fuck" type of thing are very frustrating in your pov so I would say start liking yourself more,make yourself busy,do skincare,love yourself and your body like taking care and pampering your inner child,take yourself in a solo date,develop new hobbies and most importantly never force yourself to fit in the standards created by the society cuz YOU ARE "UNIQUE AND SPECIAL"and don't let anyone determine your worth.Live your life to the fullest girl!!!:)), as nobody knows whether there is a tomorrow or not🤗❤️