Someone once asked...

“I feel like im nobody's priority like i have friends but i never had a best friend. The person that i considered bsf has other people who es more closer to than me even in friend groups etc I always am someone who gets invited in the end to anything that to just too cause ig im part of these friend groups people make their own plans without inviting me even the last and only girl that i loved and sorta was in a situationship with was using me as a backup cause she was trying to get back with her ex idk these things honestly fk me up and part of the reason this is happening cause i was always introverted never formed friendships earlier.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Oh , it's just same here. I do understand your situation. Glad I found this. My only advice to you is , just listen to yourself. Detach. Let em feel your absence. See if they really care or not. If not then it's over. I know detachment isn't easy. Like you'll find nothing to do without em but ... You have to. Busy yourself. Do what you love. Write diary.

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Another soul answered...

honestly, such people love to take advantage of people who are always available and apparently very nice. I get it, I'm an introvert too. Imo, stop being nice - but don't stop being kind. Start setting up boundaries, put yourself first, say NO to last minute plans and stop being overly available. This isn't you being rude, this is just you respecting and valuing yourself - prioritize yourself. Enjoy your own company, do things alone, and focus on yourself. I promise - you willl find your people. These people do not know how to value you and honestly it is their loss. Their behaviour is a reflection of them, not you. Don't let their actions bring you down because that is exactly what they want. One of the good things you will get out of this is that you will realise who your people actually are. Always remember that you should never feel desperate to be friends with your own friends. Remember your worth and don't let it be defined by others around you 🤍 stay strong 💪

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