Someone once asked...

“I feel like I'm constantly seeking reassurance... Like telling them what's going on with me is the only way for me to get relief. It's true. It hurts a lot... maybe I'm overthinking or maybe not. Maybe I'm not their priority or maybe they're actually busy. Even if someone is busy, sending one message isn't a big deal. Yesterday when I was talking to her, I told her about all these things that why I get anxiety attacks and what are the possible reasons. She understood what I tried to say. Then the conversation shifted to talking to her family. And while talking about that...I proposed her properly and told everything I feel about her.. how much she means to me and everything...we had a normal conversation. Today I've sent her some reels... she reacted, answerd some questions of the reel but didn't send me any reels or messages from her own. When I realized it .... I thought maybe because of what I said yesterday.. she's not texting me today cause how she talked felt completely normal...I feel like she's kinda not wanting to text me or something else I don't know...I might be wrong but in these moments I'm having anxiety attacks, feeling unwanted... feels like I'm annoying them. It's been 4/5 hours...now it feels like even if she does text me or send me a reel, it's gonna be out of mercy and not like a regular one. But I also know if I talk to either of them..they gonna be like no we were just busy with something else and stuffs like that....so I won't text. And one more thing I can't make friends or join communities in this situation. Right now when I'm feeling like this, I can't even go to my masque to pray”

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Someone answered with kindness...

U need give her time don't need to anyway check her how she reacts to ur reel our she not taking like u wanted u need just give her time if she care she will message u our talk with our maybe u should observe for distance if it not working properly u need let go

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Another soul answered...

First of all i want to say i understand where you are coming from i am too like this but i am now self aware so working on these things about what you’re feeling it is completely normal when you are attached and afraid to lose the other person but you have to believe that not every person thinks as deeply as you. For you not getting a message for 4-5 hours must make you anxious for someone else it could be pretty normal thing it definitely doesnt mean that they do not care about you. What matters is that when you open up to them about your need how do they react? Do they give you reassurace or just dismiss it. If its the latter one then i think you should slowly try detaching ypurself from this person im not saying completely leave them but have other things to focus on because you cannot depend emotionally on just one person we do know life is unpredictable so you have to be ready to lose people anytime its hard i know but that is how life works a person can give you all the reassurance you want and decide on a random day that they do not want you anymore. So the most helpful and reasonable thing for you to do here would be build a life that doesnt get destroyed if a person leaves. It will be hard in start but trust me once you will free yourself from expectations life will come from you and you will enjoy it. There is literally so much more to life than this.

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