Someone once asked...

“I feel like I'll never be enough. I constantly feel ugly and ashamed of how I look. I hate my shoulders too core they are too manly. I see my twin and she has this perfect body and pale skin then theres me eh. Everyone around me says im beautiful. But its not about that, I dont feel beautiful atall. I've been bullied severely maybe thats one of the reasons I feel this way. I don't know how to stop feeling like shit all the time. Sorry for this long text :(”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Honestly, I wish you were a little kinder to yourself. I know it's easier said than done, especially after being bullied, but don't let those people have that much control over how you see yourself even now. And please stop comparing yourself to your twin. She's her own person and so are you. You don't have to have her features or body to be pretty. I know you don't see what others see when they compliment you, but that doesn't mean they're lying. And you don't have to force yourself to love how you look overnight either. Just stop being so cruel to yourself. You don't deserve that.

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Another soul answered...

First of girll take a break, u have been dealing with so much. Im not here to give u some answer that will make u feel better for a short time and u go back to being ur old self. I want u to be completely naked and stand in front of a mirror, then observe ur body and get to a conclusion about what are the things that actually look bad or ur insecure about, then try to improve them(for example sleep, or do cardio if u think ur fat), u will not suddenly change into a model after 1 month, but if u stay consistent you will definitely become way better than you are now. My story (skip it if you want to): I was very-very fat around 4-5 years ago, people called me with various nicknames like potato and all, then i decided to change, i started doing cardio, playing futball, improved my communication but talking to a lot of strangers, and currently im proud of myself, i have an average hieght, i look like around 8.5/10(before it was 5/10), i became athletic, i just got better at everything YOUR NOT ALONE, THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO FEEL LIKE YOU, BUT WHAT MATTERS IS THE WORK YOU PUT IN, IF U START DOING SOMETHING THAT MAKES UR BETTER EVEN FOR 30 MINUTES, IT WILL CHANGE UR LIFE. HOPE THIS HELPED