I feel like everyone getting a partner and I'm the only one standing alone , everyone even my frnds gfs compliments my looks n all but due to lack of communication (with girls) im not able to find one and I feel extreme FOMO

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I feel you brother. The FOMO is natural. Someone complimenting your looks is an amazing thing, I hope you are aware of your looks too.

Approaching girls is one of the best way instead of waiting. Approach with respect and without any expectation. It can be embarrassing at the beginning but at some point someone will be interested in connecting with you. Break the ice, step out of the comfort zone and greet them, compliment something specific, instead of vauge or creepy compliments. Do it without the intention of making her your GF.

Start withing your friends group, compliment them, compliment your male friends, their gfs, then strangers. It can something simple like "your shoes looks amazing, where did you buy them?" then start a conversation around shoes or sports or fashion. Then take to next step compliment their choices and interests instead of shoes, say "you have great sense of fashion". Once you practice this and get comfortable, use this to approach girls with something as simple as a "hello" ask a question, give non physical compliments, respect no. Talk couple of times and if you have matching vibe ask her out.

Your looks is a bonus for you, you will be able to find someone.

Best wishes.

“I feel like everyone getting a partner and I'm the only one standing alone , everyone even my frnds gfs compliments my looks n all but due to lack of communication (with girls) im not able to find one and I feel extreme FOMO”