Someone once asked...

“I feel like a complete failure. Im not good at anything. I struggle to maintain friendships and relationships and the relationships which I do have left are hurting me. I dont know what to focus on, making friends, my career, my happiness. It feels impossible to be happy at this rate. Im stuck in a place where i dont want to hurt myself but cant imagine my future either. What do i do?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Your happiness is what you should focus on. Much easier said then done, but you do know deep deep down what would give that... Seek It out. I've been in simillar cases not knowing where the hell my future would go- Now I'm studying for a STEM mentorship to become a doctor because some real friends lifted me out of the dark place. Don't tolerate those who hurt you. It is better to be alone then with a fake friend.

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Another soul answered...

Don't be afraid to put yourself out there more. Don't just settle for what you have! It can be difficult to move on from tough relationships or hobbies/career paths that you aren't actually interested in, but it's also important that you try and find the right people and things for you. Try volunteering somewhere, get a part time job, join clubs or associations in your town (or school if you still go), etc. You'll be able to meet people, who you can make more casual connections with, you could possibly build your career (adding these things to your resume), and you inevitably learn new skills. Also, make sure to take care of yourself! Eat healthy, stay active, get plenty of rest. These things may not seem like a big deal, but they could potentially be adding to how you're feeling. I don't know if this helped, but I hope it did. Remember that failure is always the path to success, even if it doesn't always feel like it. I'm sure your future is bright, just keep focusing on what makes you happy!