“I don't understand why someone I care about so much seems angry with me or keeps ignoring me. She barely knows me properly, yet I always find myself around her, looking for little opportunities to help her, even with the simplest things. I care about her more than I can explain, and I always try my best to be perfect for her, to make her happy and never disappoint her. But why does she never seem to notice my efforts? Why am I always the one apologising, even when I haven't done anything wrong? Why do I keep trying so hard to earn someone's attention and appreciation? I don't even understand why I do these things or why I can't control myself. Sometimes I wonder whether caring this much about someone who barely notices me means I'm losing my self-respect. Should I stop trying, give her space, or continue being the person I am? How do I learn to care about someone without forgetting my own worth? , but she is not my girlfriend or boyfriend or even my relative , she is just a person i found randomly and my heart can never stop caring about ...........”
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Someone answered with kindness...
You should focus on yourself,work on your career and skills.do not waste time on other people,people change like season.put that effort you put into looking for her into yourself,you can ☺️.
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Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet
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Another soul answered...
I have been where you are right now and this was when I was in college. Now it's been what 10 years, things have changed. She is living with her husband. I have my family. I don't know. I guess time time will give you the answer and time. Will drift you guys apart? Saddest part is not even 1% she felt the same way