Someone once asked...

“I dont know why but i cant really connect to somebody. I mean i seem to be pretty normal with others but deep down i cant rely on them or dont feel close them even my closest friends. I feel like they are gonna abandon me someday so i never get attached to anybody. I get close with people but when they became too close i leave them. I feel suffocated whenever someone gets too close to me or they say they care about me i get defensive. Sometimes i want to be loved but i cant.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

First of all you sound like a lovely person and next its okay to feel like that sometimes and as much as i know u gotta give it some time and effort and probably speaking to friends often about these issues and therapy too but i have ti give it to you cuz identifying the issue itself is the hardest part and since you already know it i believe that you can do it anyways i love you and im so proud of you sending you virtual hugs and kisses byeee

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Another soul answered...

Oh my god! I may not be able to give a solution to this but I can say that you are not alone, I feel the same. I don't even call most of the people as friends and others find it weird, while I feel others calling everyone as their friend as weird. I like my space, my privacy, i don't like people knowing my business. It feels suffocating. I currently am trying to escape from people I have to face everyday just because they have been intruding my space at odd hours even when they know that I need to sleep or get some work done. Your question helped me in realising that I am not the only one who feels like this.

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