“I don’t know why but I always choose ‘wrong’ people to hang out with. In the end they end up showing their true colors and I feel like all my good memories with them are ruined and sometimes I even feel embarrassed, and often I forgive people too easily which makes me continue to talk to them. For example, I recently had this ex friend who turned out to be misogynistic, racist and homophobic ( I thought she changed and became better but she was just faking it )and not only that she ended up talking so much shit about me and I feel so embarrassed I kept being friends with her. How do I stop doing this?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
At the end of the day, all we can judge on is the persons first impression on you. Everyone has met or accidently been friends with bad people, theres no way around it. The important thing is to cut ties with these people and find ones that truly care about you. it can be difficult and it can take years, but its worth it, I promise.