“I dont know what i am doing with my life anymore. I am 25 yo now graduated 3 yrs back i am an introvert person but i do enjoy hanging out with my friends and i open up with them too. and three years back, I met my boyfriend. I am still in a relationship with him from past three years so we met on Instagram and after that we got into a relationship pretty quickly. It was going well for one year and then after that, I Got a job actually, and after that, I there was there were some colleagues in my office that were maybe pretending to be a gentleman or I don’t know. I got influence and I broke up with my boyfriend because of some reason, the reasons for that I said I feel that he doesn’t compliment me and he likes basic courtesy chivalry and there were many small small things that I told him and I broke up with him saying that I am really busy. I was actually busy when I broke up with him. He said that he wants another chance and he would do all those things he would open the door for me and do all those things that I am asking him to do and give his hundred percent, but I said I feel like there were only vibes of best friend and not a relationship because I want a relationship where the man is a man wants to lead and then he said I can’t lose you so we made it pretty clear that I do not want to date him anymore. He still stood up by my side and everything was okay. I was really busy, so I wasn’t attached to anyone at that point of time months later what happened was I bought a phone and it got stolen no one was there for me at that time. I was really sad because I bought that phone from my breakfast salary, first or second salary and it was pretty expensive, so he was there for me all the time and he was really II would just like to say he never left my side that time. So after that I got really the job was exhausting. I decided it quit in like 10 months, so I quit my job and then when I quit my job, I had a lot of free time, so I I was able to talk to my ex like that is my boyfriend right now, but we broke up that time for like 56 months so I was able to talk to him more because I was busy in Office. I didn’t get tired to talk to him and I thought maybe maybe his friends so hard. Maybe he will change and treat me the way I want so I told him that let’s give it a chance, and we should try again and we got back together and it was lovely. It was like our feelings were too. It was amazing till that till I think three months later, he actually join masters got himself into a masters program and that he found a group of friends. There were two girls in his group and suddenly I felt like his behaviour totally changed, aren’t you he did not have any friends before our relationship or throughout our relationship and then in only 10 days he was like I am getting really busy, I’m not getting time and you just like the sweet sweet sister reassurance it all faded and I was also getting insecure at that time because I did not know how should I deal with a boyfriend that has female friends. It was totally new for me, so I used to say things like oh do you like her she pretty and all was getting pretty annoyed, so I actually told him that I can’t take it anymore. I was I was attached to him at that time so I said I can’t take it with my mental health is the trading and I blocked him from everywhere. He said that I think because a mental health is not right. It’s it’s a fine decision, but I still want to be. I don’t want to break up. I won’t say I want to break up, but I am really getting busy this time. I won’t be able to give you such time that I used to give you, I enrolled in this program so I tried then we got back and till that time from that time it has been one year two months and the relationship is okay. He does for me. He still has those two female friends and I don’t know what once what happened that he received a call from one of the female friend and he I think she asked, who are you with, and said, maybe my name, and he said no, no, I am not. I’m just with a friend that that heart that really hard why I have been insecure in this relationship. I am really anxious. I wait for his replies. I expect him to text back. I want his reassurance. It has been high and low journey for us, and I don’t want to depend on so much, but I don’t know what to do. I’m really confuse and so. I also forgot that when I got back in relationship with him after I lost my job. Sorry, I desire from my job. I actually joined a job from home that I quit just now so it has been like one year, I worked that job and now I am trying to get a new job and I’m applying for a new job that would be back from office only, so I stay at home and he has friends that he can hang out with. I do not have a male friends because I lost all my contacts, Office because I cannot keep friendship. It’s exhausting for me to talk to people. I just talk to one or two people in my daily life that is too of my friends and my boyfriend.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
don't give him any more chances. men rarely deserve it and no, this isn't a rare occasion