Someone once asked...

“I dont know man. I feel like I'll never find love. I dont grt attached to people because I know i will get hurt. I've rejected many ppl of which some I regret. Ive only liled 2 guys till now, i have this boundary to myself that I will not fall for anyone cause I dont deserve anyone, That i need to get better, skinnier, prettier before I date someone and fall in love. It will sound shallow that I care about love so much,but thats genuinely just one of the things I so badly want to experience, i want to belong somehwere i want someone to choose me, cherish me too. I believe that love exists, i am the biggest fan of love, whether it be romantic or platonic. But i dont think it exists for me”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

Getting better, becoming skinnier, or looking prettier won't make someone truly love you. Everything in life is temporary. Your looks, your body, your appearance. they all change with time. You should never have to lose yourself just to be loved by someone. Real love means being accepted for who you are. You can be yourself, make your own choices, have imperfections, and still be loved. You don't have to change yourself to deserve someone's love. The right person won't make you feel like you're never enough.

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Another soul answered...

Hello dear stranger first you deserve to be loved every decent human on earth deserve to be loved second you don't have to be perfect for anyone else just work on your path everything is going to unfold in your favour,you might be thinking how can I say this with certainty well i myself am single for life also am not that pretty sometimes I also felt like this but it was before well my remedy is to not spend so much time in my head get myself busy . So don't feel sad you can work it out ,you got this :)

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Another soul answered...Thanked by the asker

Omgg I also have feelings exactly like you!! Like I too a m a believer of love but I genuinely think love doesn't exist for me. And the part that I should get more skinnier and prettier is also very relatable. But despite all these things in my head, there is a small hope that never dies. A hope that, i too will be cherished for life by someone, never leaves. So I think ill hope for the best, and keep going with the flow. I genuinely thank you for putting my thoughts into words and letting me know that there are others too, who yearn for love like i do and that im not a crazy person to be doing so. Idk what future holds for me, but i seriously, with my whole heart, pray and hope that you find the kind of love you yearn for and that the two of u stay together for eternity!!!!

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