“I don't know how to start describing this feeling, i sware I loved him from 6 years and before few months we broken up because I get to know about his affairs with some girls , and some old affairs also, all in the time of our relationship. I never doubted him but because of my bestie I get to know about his true colours totally and I can't able to be with him or feel the old spark with him at all so I just broken up with him,even after break up he said he will wait for me and said he will never be with another girl at all, he sware it on his mother who was passed away,now just few minutes ago I saw his insta story with the same girl he claimed to be his sisterly friend,and the story is in love song and I don't know what happened to me ever after the time i watched it,my whole body is shaking and I don't know whom to share this, why he has to be this towards me,I never even tried to talk to another boy since we are in relationship because I respect our bond a lot,from very first he was like this,like a play boy,but I thought he will change if I love him true and did that as same,..but!! Lastly all I got is this health issues in row throughout our relationship because I never questioned him afraid he will leave me,but now I can't able to see him with other girl like this. I can't able to bare this pain at all,my chest is hurting and I can't even cry even I has to because I'm with my family now, from my 11th class we are in relationship and it's almost 8 years,. I don't know what to do. I can't feel falling for any one but also I can't be with him because if I ever see him all I was remembering that how he manipulated me soo well while I'm being genuine, he knows I will never bare the pain if I see those type of stories but did it. Even after our breakup i rejected proposals since I don't feel like being in relationship again with anyone.. and even he said he doesn't loved me at all since the beginning and just had attraction towards me and he was proud to have me as his girlfriend since I rejected soo many proposals in my college, he took that as a challenge to make me fall in love . He revealed it on a phone call after our breakup since I was angry on him for sharing our personal story with my btech classmates who has nothing to do with it at all ..... Now what I have to do.my body was literally shaking and I was telling it's because of cold. I don't know it will effect me this much ...please please I can't anymore, it's really hurting sooo much”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I'm so sorry that happened to you. You did not deserve that all.
That boy is an a**hole and he will cheat again, cheaters never stop, once they've done it and got away with it they'll just do it again and again.
Don't go back to him, you're letting him cross your boundaries. Block that guy out of your life and the most important advice I'll give u is stay single for a while. Try to be with urself and understand yourself and your boundaries related to the relationships in ur life and the kind of relationship u want to have. You were in a relationship at such a young age that you did not have time for urself. Don't get into another relationship just yet. Take your time baby, time heals all. Keep urself busy and never allow him any access to you ever again.
Sending lots of love and healing to you, stranger.🫶