“I dont feel like myself lately.. I am a very expressive person i like telling stories and people really enjoy my company like i keep them entertained. But if i become frnds with someone new my real self doesnt show up i dont have anyone whom i can call bestfriend. Because I have lost friendships all my lives and now i am in a state where i dont want to make friends but i miss being around ppl..I have become so careful in choosing ppl that i endup choosing none.. im 22 and like no matter how many ppl i meet they already have their friend groups and i feel like i will be alone forever. Also i have noticed everytime i have to choose ppl i have to call them i have to make plans but nobody chooses me and make me feel important. I dont know where im going wrong!!”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Do u think u really need an friend? To keep u happy? To give u company? To make you feel special? I don't think so? U can enjoy ur own company your own self as well, know your worth! U aren't worth a person to choose others and not you! Have one friend a one who supports you! Whom u gets a thought of when you say hmm that's my best friend? Who you think of?? If you think of one name so kindly don't call others ur friends! Cuz he/she the only one who cares of you?? No?