Someone once asked...

““I brokeup with my ex 2 months ago and i still havent moved on.....i still stalk him through a secret account and he is posting stuffs like i was the problem when in reality he lost feelings for me and brokeup with me......he is also posting other stuff like he wasnt at all effected and in the mean time i deactivated my account because i was so sad to look at our chats and i am struggling to be happy....i know he doesnt love me and he was being an asshole but i still am curious about his moves like i am hurt that he did me like this....we brokeup in the very beginning but then he cameback and apologised and then we brokeup again,like he was the one who proposed and said i love you and initiated everything and there were spme communicatiom gaps whic i couldnt understand and i was trying to fix( there was no use he had already made up his mind to breakup but he wanted me to do it so he doesnt look like an asshole so he started being cold and distant) i was trying my best to understand him and make it work but in the end he blatantly said he didnt even want to try to make it work...the relationship was 4 months long second time when he cameback...i couldnt even eat properly for a few weeks and just sterted focusing on myself and yet after all the selfcare and love i give myself i cant see, to get rid of feelings for him li,e not even an ick....like im trying to glowup for revenge and stuff when in reality i just want to be unbothered but even am tiny thing i do i feel like im doin it to show him...i am thinking about him contantly 24 7 even when im busy....looking at his profile evryday daydreaming him regretting and all so yeah wtf should i do🫠 How the fuck do i get over him””

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

I have almost same story as you gurl😭 u must already know that it takes times... Jstt let it be and focus on yourself... U dont need to think like u are improving to show him cuz he already know what he lost... He is just a boy who doesn't care enough to talk to you and fix everything.... Make your life veryyy busy and don't check his profile no matter what

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Another soul answered...

Girly pop!! first of all.. I wanna let uk how damn brave u are for acknowledging ad admitting how u feel. Now listen! You're a gem, ok? You're a damn beautiful, hot fine shyt and u deserve the world. Remember, a man who makes you chase him, a man who gets lost easily, a man who can't keep you isn't a man. He's a dumbass who deosn't deserve ur love. Ur a queen, and yk what? Queens don't go after a guy, because a guy who truly loves you, a guy who truly deserves you will never make you chase after him, because guess what? he values you enough to never leave ur side, to keep u, to be there for you, no matter how hard shit gets. And about the glowup for revenge thingy..babygirl, this mindset is what's stopping u from moving on. Definitely glowup, for sure work on urself, but not to make him regret, not to make him jealous because if that's what ur intention is, then it's still about HIM, not about YOU. And darling, nothing in this world, is more important than YOU. Lots of love:) All the best!

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