“I broke up with my ex a few months back and I am still eager for answers but not too desperate that I will do anything for them. Now, last day, I was talking one of his classmates - (turns out my ex hates that guy and his other friend) and I have spoke to both of them about my ex asking if one of his secrets was true or not and it turned out that no one really knew about that the secret I was talking about and I ended telling my ex's secret to both of them in details
Now I am in guilt that this is not fair to my ex that I did this to him becaz he had not mentioned about that secret of his to me like I knew the thing in general terms but not in details and with names of ppl involved and when I knew the details from someone I was in shock becaz few things were exaggerated later it turned out that it was not that bad as it sounded or explained by that person
(This secret is related to his love life where got rejected and embarrassed)
Rn, I am also overthinking that if we ever get back together - should I mention everything about who I talk to and all that? Like I talk to ppl he was not really fond of? What if he gets so pissed that he dumps me ? What is the right path?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
maybe apologize to your ex and just let him know it was a mistake and that u didn't mean for that to happen and just be on good terms with him, the relationship is the next step
just my thoughts!