I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and yesterday i finally decided to moveon and stop viewing his profile online and all like a proper moveon and today morning i saw a dream🥹 in the dream he texted my cousin( he was a friend of hers) and asked her about me and then send several pictures of how his life had been lately and how he was and all tp show me but not in a revenge way but in a he misses me and my presence way like he still love me..and asked her about me and about how i was doing and all.....i feel so empty rightnow, he has moved on with his life as far as i know he is happy and busy and surrounded by his friends going on trips attending weddings and living his life and i am here doing absolutely nothing🥹 i couldnt properly even eat after the breakup and recently started to eat well again, i had decided to letgo of everything so that it brings me peace,like i didnt want any revenge and yesterday i decided it is not worth it to work on myself just so he can see my glowup and regret stuff, like i decided i would genuinely work on myself and make myself better and take care of myself and moveon and wont check his profile anymore and all
I still havent checked his profile yet because i genuinely want to change.....and maybe this is the start of it
Please dont give me focus on yourself,you are going to be okay type of advice
The dream has crushed me that i wokeup aqnd felt empty😭🫠💔
I genuinely hope that im going to be okay.

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I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and yesterday i finally decided to moveon and stop viewing his profile online and all like a proper moveon and today morning i saw a dream🥹 in the dream he texted my cousin( he was a friend of hers) and asked her about me and then send several pictures of how his life had been lately and how he was and all tp show me but not in a revenge way but in a he misses me and my presence way like he still love me..and asked her about me and about how i was doing and all.....i feel so empty rightnow, he has moved on with his life as far as i know he is happy and busy and surrounded by his friends going on trips attending weddings and living his life and i am here doing absolutely nothing🥹 i couldnt properly even eat after the breakup and recently started to eat well again, i had decided to letgo of everything so that it brings me peace,like i didnt want any revenge and yesterday i decided it is not worth it to work on myself just so he can see my glowup and regret stuff, like i decided i would genuinely work on myself and make myself better and take care of myself and moveon and wont check his profile anymore and all
I still havent checked his profile yet because i genuinely want to change.....and maybe this is the start of it 
Please dont give me focus on yourself,you are going to be okay type of advice
The dream has crushed me that i wokeup aqnd felt empty😭🫠💔
I genuinely hope that im going to be okay.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

If you still care about him, contact him. He might miss you too. I know that I can be in so much pain on the inside and still be laughing and smiling on the outside. He might be doing the same thing. But he also might not be.  Sorry! You can't always tell. The only thing I can think of is if you really miss him that much, reach out. And if you either don't miss him enough or he doesn't want you anymore, find someone new. There are 8 billion people out there. Go traveling, go out, have your friends set up blind dates. You will find someone. Even if it's not him.
I'm sorry this probably wasn't very helpful