I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, and now I am lowkey really depressed and don't know what to do! We were friends in uni for 2 years, and then we got together. He was really nice and caring when we were friends. The reason we got together was because we made out when we were drunk and confessed to each other. Once we got together, he was really different, and he kept telling me he was scared of commitments and couldn't have a gf. I was lowkey pissed, but we were doing fine. He cared about me a lot and was always there for me whenever I needed him, maybe not always, but most of the time. We are complete opposites. I'm an introvert, and he is an extrovert. He is always busy and doesn't really have enough time for me, but I never really complained about anything. He just feels really bad and close to giving up because he feels like he is ruining my mental health. He called me after 3 days of our breakup and asked me to be happy and take care of myself, and apologized for being a bit. I lowkey miss him and want to text him so bad. In my mind, I am like, he called me, so why not me? The most important thing I can't let go of is that we had sex, so now I am in this position that is destroying me. I really want to be with him. He makes me happy, takes care of me, and makes me feel like myself, and I miss all of those. All I want to do is get back with him, but I know it's not really possible. We had a break before because he felt like he wasn't paying enough attention to me, and the reason we got back together was because we had sex. He told me he really wanted this to work out and tried, but he doesn't think he can be committed to anything now because of how he is as a person.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

lol when you both have compatibility issues, and he is telling himself only that he can't give committment to you , why you are still longing for him ?
i guess you are just overvaluing his efforts/or feelings just because you had 'sex' with him ? its so wrong IMO (i know its soo much for girls, but still move on...whatever happened, happened ) 
if you like your relationship that much physically , just be in a FWB or casual relation with him, i guess he would be happy with that .
best is to move on since you both know you wont be able to have a long term future together