Someone once asked...

“I beokeup with my ex 2 months ago and i still havent moved on.....i still stalk him through a secret account and he is posting stuffs like i was the problem when in reality he lost feelings for me and brokeup with me......he is also posting other stuff like he wasnt at all effected and in the mean time i deactivated my account because i was so sad to look at our chats and i am struggling to be happy....i kmow he doesnt love me and he was being an asshole but i still am curious about his moves like i am hurt that he did me like this....i couldnt even eat properly for a few weeks and just sterted focusing on myself and yet after all the selfcare and love i give myself i cant see, to get rid of feelings for him li,e not even an ick....like im trying to glowup for revenge and stuff when in reality i just want to be unbothered but even am tiny thing i do i feel like im doin it to show him...i am thinking about him contantly 24 7 even when im busy....looking at his profile evryday daydreaming him regretting and all so yeah wtf should i do🫠 How the fuck do i get over him”

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Someone answered with kindness...

It is totally alright to be in the situation you are in. You'll feel miserable , like hella miserable but you must also know that you're gonna be okay , not immediately but soon enough you will be . There's no revenge or anything , choose peace . Stay away from drama and heal. I wish you so much of positivity and luck . Cry as much as you can , till you're drained . You'll be hurt , yes , but let it out . There's no good point in being miserable over a man who didn't think twice before losing you. Good luck ! Be well!

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Another soul answered...

Imagine you already have him and he's behaving like this...I think he just did time pass with you ik it coz I was in that position I want you to activate your acc and delete all the chats nd his pics coz you never gonna move on if you still attached to him...ik its hard at first but you'll be okay🫂🫂 as I said I was at ur position once I deleted everything and pretended that I am okay even if I am not he came back..!!and they all do come back but at that time you'll be healed and moved on..❤️ all I can say is delete all the things related to him not even number just delete everything as long as you don't do that you'll never get moved on Remember he knew how much it hurts you if he leave you and he still did that and while you're crying over him he's laughing with his new girls.. Take that energy and put into yourself nd glow up❤️🫂 If you want to talk more silent__me45 that's my fake acc you can text me if you ever wanted to talk with someone

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Another soul answered...

Ykw honestly this has happened with me too and you can either just try to block him forget him until it's gone or u can just go to him get the hell of ur self respect get lost like beg him to stay with you until and until u don't have even an announce of self respect

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Another soul answered...

This will pass too, hold on a little longer and try to do something that keeps you and your brain occupied like a hobby or a physical activity find something to do, and remember if he isn't bothered by your absence then why should you.

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