“I am working with projects and I have these teammates who I have worked with for one year and I did much chunk of the work that time as well but they were there way more and some of my burden was lifted and it was a fine time but then keeping that in mind I decided to work with them again for this year as well but then the entire work is coming to me, they do not respect my personal space or something and always just expect me to do the work and always I end up doing it with lot of headache because I cant leave it alone and I am becoming very stressed and getting headaches and I am not able to leave it alone like them either, I just...I dont know what to do and how to overcome this. One thing to also know I have spoken to them countless times about this issue and addresses it very diplomatically as well and that time they shake heads and all and its a good thing but then they circle back to the same thing and the worst thing they think they do plenty of work even though they do little to none and even though I am very sick, I still do the work...I heavily regret continuing the same guide and the teammates, its always bugging and I feel very tired, defeated and so done with all this. If anyone knows how to get over this, how do I deal with this?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
youre not being a bad person, they are. you should go to hr or equivelent and report this.