I am with a girl for past 2.5 years. And i genuinely love her the most. She was the one to propose me first. Initially she used to make my everyday like i am living in a literary heaven. I used to think if i can ever match the amount of her love. She used to be the girl i dreamt of. Everything about her was so amazing.
But now after almost 3 years. I don't really know her anymore it feels like. She changed her behaviour towards me, she hides little things and says she can't keep me updated all the time. Even she has changed the way she used to dress and you know when you get used to watch someone in a way and after that it changes like complete opposite it actually bothers you a little.
When i try to be emotionally expressive, cause i don't want to lose her, she taunts me for being emotinal. It actually hurts me. I notice almost her every small details. But it seems like she doesn’t really care much. I opened up multiple time about me being bothered the way She's treating me but ended up apologising almost every time. I don't loved enough. There isn't anything special that she does only for me. It actually breaks the sky for me.

I even wanted to draw our paths away but i Couldn't. I can't:) I just really love her a lot and want only her to love me, the way she used to actually. When i tried getting separated it actually affected my studies and work significantly. I can't focus on anything. I feel like i love too much and care too much.
I don't want to feel this way. Please help me out:)
I would genuinely appreciate it, if someone could just help me even a little.

Question

I am with a girl for past 2.5 years. And i genuinely love her the most. She was the one to propose me first. Initially she used to make my everyday like i am living in a literary heaven. I used to think if i can ever match the amount of her love. She used to be the girl i dreamt of. Everything about her was so amazing.  
But now after almost 3 years. I don't really know her anymore it feels like. She changed her behaviour towards me, she hides little things and says she can't keep me updated all the time. Even she has changed the way she used to dress and you know when you get used to watch someone in a way and after that it changes like complete opposite it actually bothers you a little. 
When i try to be emotionally expressive, cause i don't want to lose her, she taunts me for being emotinal. It actually hurts me. I notice almost her every small details. But it seems like she doesn’t really care much. I opened up multiple time about me being bothered the way She's treating me but ended up apologising almost every time. I don't loved enough. There isn't anything special that she does only for me. It actually breaks the sky for me.

I even wanted to draw our paths away but i Couldn't. I can't:) I just really love her a lot and want only her to love me, the way she used to actually.  When i tried getting separated it actually affected my studies and work significantly. I can't focus on anything. I feel like i love too much and care too much.  
I don't want to feel this way. Please help me out:)
I would genuinely appreciate it, if someone could just help me even a little.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Idk if you're a woman or a man,Doesn't matters but dude,What I'm about to say might really hurt you but from what you told me,I think she's losing interest or maybe she's interested in someone else. I totally get you bro and from how you're describing it,it seems you genuinely love her alot and tbh it feels bad that you love her sm and she acts like that. I'm not trying to be a pick me or anything I'm just giving my opinion. My advice would be to ask her directly. Ask her if she's interested in you anymore or not. Or if she has found someone else. Ik it might hurt you,reading this and I don't want to I'm so sorry but I'm telling you what the truth it. You need to start focusing on yourself please. I'm this is very hard ting to get over someone and like you love them so much that you can't. Just confrogt hee directly and don't lose yourself for her. If she doesn't loves you anymore what's even the poung if the relationship. Just confront her already and about her taunting you bmafter you opened up? That's sick. This is so weird. She shouldn't have done that. I get it how you're feeling you need to let go,bro. If loving her means getting hurt like this and losing yourself so ten leave her. It's not worth it. Doing all the efforts for someone who stopped caring for you? Not worth it. Please leave her. Confront her about it,and if this keeps going on,leave this mess. Ik you love her and I love this but you might be loving the wrong person. Put your efforts for someone who cares. I hope you find true love and someone who genuinely loves you. I hope you get better. Leave her and focus on yourself instead,Your studies and future. You have a lot to do for yourself,buddy. Take care of yourself and give yourself more importance than her (only bcz she's acting like this). I'm sorry if my advice hurt you but I'm just trying to tell the truth and this is how I see it. I shared my opinion for you. Idk if you'd consider it but definitely consider those parts where I asked you to focus on yourself and take care. Take care,dude. Hope you find true peace!