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I feel you, I went trough a simular thing when I was in uni. I could not start learning for month. I was totaly blocked. The night before my exam, i tried for hours setting myself a timer, saying I will start in 15 min until the morning of the exam. It did not work for me. It felt like there is no way out of this situation and that I must be able to do this. In the end I dropped out. I focused on getting better and it got better. Now looking back at that time I am happy that I dropped out. It would not have put me on a path a would have made me happy and deep inside I have know it. Please find someone you can talk about this, I know this is super hard and I don't know if I would have been able to follow advice like this if I was in your situtuation. If you ever think about taking your life, call a hotline that helps you. The world needs you and there is always another way even if it does not seem like this if you are in it. I wish you all the best! It is ok to be blocked and there is always another way! You are not alone!
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tell your parents the truth. theyll understand trust me xx althoigh if you REALLY dont want to do that try to study for a couple days, find a schedule, as a trial and if you feel like your gonna die, stop. Take a break I BELIEVE IM SRY IF I DIDNT HELP
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Study and wrote down what u know and if u missed anything write it down in a different color. It's a skill that helped me during high school 😋 With the stress and pressure I'd day that isn't so bad to take a step back and give urself time
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Hello. As someone who has been in your shoes before, and who struggled with failure and lack of strength to keep going...please do not give up. As much as it easier said than done, day by day, keep moving forward and don't stop. No exam or any trivial matter is worth taking your own life. You are on this Earth for a reason, and it is up to you to decide what kind of life you would like. It is such a privilege to be alive, and I encourage you to find something that brings you joy, even when things seem really shitty. When I was going through the most horrible time, and every day felt like hell, and I really just wanted to give up, I did not stop. You have your whole life ahead of you, and you are at your own pace, feel free to study for your exam at your own pace. Think about the opportunities that will come when you finish. Half a year from now or more, you will look back and you will thank yourself for all the effort you put in to study and complete your exam. I genuinely never thought I would complete my undergrad. I did the most stupidest and hardest courses I have ever taken, I felt like I did the impossible, and the only thing that kept me going was thinking about the end goal. Even if you fail, keep going. I want you to know that you are absolutely not alone with how you feel. I am not a professional, but as someone who has gone through several difficult periods in my life that I thought I would never overcome...I overcame every one of those periods (it was not easy though). I look back and I thanked myself for not giving up. If you don't want to do that exam, find something else that your heart desires. After all, the world really is your oyster. Explore, learn, try new things. I had to try a lot of things before I landed on something stable, and I am still looking for something else to do. Anyways, basically my strongest suggestion is to take it slow, take care of yourself, and reach out to people who may be able to guide you/support you in reaching your goals. You are in control of your life, and you matter. Do not give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I promise it is worth it to try, fail, try again, and keep going!!!!!!!!!!!!
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