“i am so in love with a person i cant be with of a particular problem (lets name it x). i dont know how to cope up with it cause all my life x has taken so much frome me, my potential, my dreams, my hope, my ambitions, my will to live sometimes, everything. and now also the person i love. the worse part is i understand them for not choosing me cause as my mom says "if you truly love someone let them go cause noone deserves the pain that comes w you" (ik it is wrong to say something like this to your own kid but it is what it is). i love this person but if they love me how cant they just accept it and fight right? but how can i be mad at someone for choosing the easier path. they say they love me and i do believe that but there are nights i wish it was untrue so it would hv been easier to let go by saying "its okay they dont care for you like you do", but ik they do. this triggers so much cause now i have to make peace with "x" all over again, it just creates another lifelong trauma. how do i live with a heart so heavy and a heart that has only witnessed people or dreams going?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Umm… I don’t think I have an answer cause I am also going through the same thing
The thing is sometimes how much ever you fight for them some people are never meant to stay I feel
Maybe that’s life
We should just move on tho every small thing reminds you of them
Tho you cry for every song
Just keep them as a sweet memory in your life which couldn’t stay
Just be happy always
Always smile not to your x tho ok