Someone once asked...

“I am not fully able to get over a guy and focus on my studies like I am 22 but I feel like I am a lot behind in life and I haven't done anything and I still procrastinate it eats me up! I feel like a failure and still can't help it and it is happening from so many years tried different exams and failed them all whereas others of my age are making it all I have failed in every aspect.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Yo sis,listen that feeling of being left behind doesn't go away no matter what stage u are in life . So use it as motivation instead of considering it as ur loss. This is something many people might have told u but still exams are important but they are not everything,i suggest u to take a break go to some place and refresh ur mind , meditate on where u are lacking,it's not time waste u are spending that time to make urself better just think that u will be getting ur job or whatever u want to achieve a little late than ur peers ,but getting late is better than never getting it naa.

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Another soul answered...

I can related to you , truly It’s not us tbh, it’s social media . Everyone wants us to believe we should have it all figured out before we are 25 . Some people just take time Take up some hobbies, try things that genuinely interest you . And ofc apply for jobs and keep trying while you make sure you are also living your life I mean you won’t ever be as young as you are rn I hope you find your purpose 🤍🤍 Much love, take care

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Another soul answered...

Hi. First of all, 22 is still very young to already think you are a failure. You have so much life to live on. You are not alone feeling this. Only at the age of 15, I felt like a complete failure. And just like you, I could not get over this one guy. I thought he would be my future but last month, he chose someone and it broke me but then i realise I could not force him to choose me and I have to move on with my life. There are better people waiting for you in the future. Your life does not end here. Fail exam over and over again? That is completely fine. Failure is apart of life. I have fail too and just like you are feeling right now, I felt hopeless and useless. I am not the best in giving words but according to your situation, there are more important things than a guy. And whenever you procrastinate, remember, you are doing this for your future, everything you do right now will define your future. Atlast, all my friends are in college and here I am left behind but it doesn't make me feel bad because everyone has a timing where they shine and i believe you will shine too. Meanwhile, love yourself, take care of your health, when you love yourself, other people don't matter. You go girl 💗

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