Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
You have to geomaxx and find love abroad, you have to split your goal into small steps to have any hope of achieving it. A journey of a thousand miles begins under one's feet.
Another soul answered...
Even at 30's, wife and kids may become a hell. You are not missing "happiness" but a life experience. That being said, if you DO want that experience, just go for it. Just a piece of advice: go full honest with yourself and (to the best extent) with your potential partner. No need to hide your defects, but to wear them elegantly. Your chances will increase (really) and your well-being will improve.