“I am in a toxic relationship I feel, because he is sweet in person but distant always on the phone, hides screen, follows random women on Instagram he is divorced too so am I, however from day 10 he started asking me money he used to pay back but not anymore, he never brings that topic at all, drinks a lot and I pay for almost everything he barely contributes, I love him so much and seems he as well but I somehow feels he is using me, for money or shelter we both wfh and he promised to marry me next year but I can’t able to buy it nor my sister or my friends, he never insisted the marriage conversation or future plans I am sure most men or like that or not. He is consistent but money matters to me I am running out of my savings hoping for a marriage. His constant phone addiction and alcohol is bothering me we met on a dating app and he has that app even after few months of relationship. one of his ex fling reached out on insta claiming he is her boyfriend and warning with bad words and I confronted this guy he says she is crazy she is just a. Friend and hangout’s in her apartment I was ok then he used to speak infront of me claiming friend always and when I asked after this incident he told I always treated her as a friend was a fling not anymore . She claims to take money from her as well.”