“I am in a group of five. The first one helped me in a fight but she slowly distances me when others come, it's all good if it's just two of us but as others come she never chooses me in first place. The second me is not at all my vibe so I just avoid her. The third one makes me feel included in little times, listens to me but again never chooses me in first place. I had good conversation with the fifth one but from the day I stoped reaching out first she did not initiated even a single conversation, even when she did that to others. So I just don't want to meet anyone now but it's third ones birthday party and I really don't wanna go because the whole group is coming and I will get flashbacks. But I don't have confidence or courage to admit this because everyone is correct at there end they have nothing to care about my mood, they were not born to handle my sensitivity. So, Should I go?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
if they truly considered you as their friend, trust me they WOULD care about your mood. that is like the bare minimum in a friendship. you have to learn how to stand up for yourself. it sounds like you genuinely don't want to be around them. you also know the answer but if hearing it from someone else gives you confidence, then no, don't go. you don't have to beg to anyone to notice you. trust me, you will find your people. it's better to be alone than be around people like this. from what you said, it seems like you have already tried talking to them once which led to them saying they were "not born to handle your sensitivity". that should've been the last straw. end the friendship, or whatever that was, immediately. your feelings matter and you do not deserve to be treated like that.