Someone once asked...

“I am going through alot, I have a bad relationship with my parents I feel so guilty about how I always shout at them and at my little sister but then also they don't see how much I am suffering and they always think I'm just a ungrateful brat and no i can't move out I'm a minor... What should I do I'm really struggling with my mental health too but I can't say anything to them because yk i have the typical desi parents..”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

See, I would suggest that you take a moment to think about yourself from their perspective. Just imagine yourself in their position and look at your actions through their eyes. Ask yourself: Am I working to my full potential? Am I making proper use of the resources my parents have provided me? Am I doing justice to those opportunities or not? Problems exist everywhere, and everyone has their own struggles. It all depends on how we look at them and how we deal with them. Also, in the morning, after waking up, or whenever you have some free time, go for a walk. While walking, just observe the people around you and the lives they are living. Take a moment to look at their struggles, their routines, and how they manage their lives. Then ask yourself: Am I living a better life than I realise, or am I so focused on my own problems that I have forgotten to appreciate what I already have?

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Another soul answered...

Bro, don't worry even I have faced it but eventually everyone will be in your hands. Lemme give you my personal practiced step when I was in this situation, First of all your calmness must be on the peek! Try not answer back, try NOT TO speak when it unnecessary. Just IGNORE your parents when they are mad and do your own stuffs. Try to move away. And about her little sis, love her yaar..... She's just a kid (No much opinions cuz don't have any siblings). See I personally used this and eventually my I got mentally stable, sometimes it's not the outsiders runing your mental health, it's your parents! And I agree with it cuz I have actually faced it! Again, TRY IGNORING THEM AND NOT TO ANSWER BACK AT ANY COST ON WHATEVER THEY SPEAK LET THEM CARRY ON!!! You are a minor, you have to figure out yourself (way to move out and live independently) If it cost you good grades then please go ahead cuz good grades helped me to join a amazing medical college and I am enjoying here far away from my family. See desi parents are actually irritating but still they love you right? Forget parents atleast your little sister?

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