“I am going out with this girl and we just went on our third date and this is both our first time dating and we live in a place where there is nothing to do and for our date we spent all of 2 hours going into random shops and walking and talking and I didn't really enjoy it because I just want to spend dedicated time with her but she had fun so do I keep doing it idk what to do for the next date and im just confused please help me”

Another soul answered...

If she had fun and you enjoyed spending time with her, I wouldn't worry too much. A date doesn't have to be amazing every single time. For your next date, try suggesting something that allows for more one-on-one conversation, since that seems to be what you value the most. I think that dating is about discovering what you both enjoy together, not forcing yourselves to repeat activities that you don't like. That said, I think it's worth being honest with her about the fact that you didn't really enjoy the activity itself. Just share how you felt. You could say something like " I had a great time being with you, but I realized the activity itsef wasn't really my thing. Maybe next time we could try something different "

Another soul answered...

picnic :DD

Another soul answered...

A dedicated painting party just the 2 of you. buy fun snacks and sit and paint one another. they'll probably turn out funny if you dont paint often, but thats part of the fun.