“I am almost 25 and unemployed from start. I really never worked, but now I want to get a job. I want to become financially independent. But the issue was that I was always staying at home. I rarely went out for years. Now I feel so underconfident with zero experience that everybody is way ahead of me. With the growing family issues, financial issues, with the depression I almost feel in my body, make harder for me to do anything. Even simple chores feel like moving a mountain. Now I actually need to start working soon because I just received a warning from my parents. But the issue is I don't know which field I should go into or what I should do, because I don't have any skills. I'm not able to learn any skills. I'm not able to talk with anyone with the zero friends and can't talk with family. I feel alone; no one to guide. What should I do? What the first step should I take, or how I should get out of this situation can help me in? Can anyone help me without making me feel ashamed?”

Another soul answered...

Heyy. I understood youu bro. And it's good youu know where you made the mistake n accepted it. I can imagine how your feeling knowing ur at most crucial stage of life and all your peers are just ahead of you and you just stuck in life... But I wanna let you know that it's okkk not to have everything figured outt. And hearing family issues ig u don't feel completely safe in your house and depression. I really suggest you to start by little things organized your day. U have lot of time. So start by making ur bed n organising ur room real quick. And make a routine (not to be accurate time to time) just like List tasks u have to complete till end of the day. For starting list easy 2-5 task only n increase as u keep hitting every. I suggest you start with communications. For that just watch YouTube videos n learn how they speak n Practice infront of mirror (ofc very awkward but better than nothing). And go to a public places like gym (if can) or normal parks or anywhere u can find ppl to talk. And if you can then go initiate a conversation with them. U can also go online and trust me strangers online are actually wayy kinder n helping. And about your skills so AI is really growing a lot and there's lot of free courses n Lot of information on YouTube. I assume you have a Bachelor's so research about ur field n how AI is giving impact on it n then Learn how u can solve problems or increase ur efficiency with Ai. And also try helping ur parents with home chores so that they don't always give you unnecessary taunts n all. And Try not to engage with them a lot. And a personal advice. Start spending time with yourself. See how you think, Your patterns, Your strengths, weakness, because in this age where everyone is just following thing blindly have a spine n Have clarity of what your doing. And know yourself and Explore New stuff there are lot of domains research About what's the on ground work, the skills related to it (Ex, Software engeeneering so Research Abt companies related to the field, what do they do, how they do etc. it will give you more clarity. I know all this might overwhelm. But Do one step at a time and don't think of what others might think or ur behind. Everyone has a unique timeline of their life. And Yepp your not lonelyy mann. Am there for youu. Take your time and Grow. I prayy you get all the strength to figure out things man. All the bestt You cannn doo itt brooo 😄😄

Another soul answered...

hey, im sorry to heard that. theres nothing to be ashamed of, youre just confused 25 doesn't mean you are late. i think you already know everything you seems very self aware you know whats wrong and how to fix but you just lost with where to start. I would suggest start small dont try to fix your entire life in a day try to fix small habits and make small goal so you dont feel pressure. about your job try to do something, you dont have to pick your entire career in first job discover new things apply for internships discover different field then go with whats best for you and what you like the most. about socializing im sorry about that i myself dont know the solution im introvert with social anxiety, and im extremely uncomfortable around people. (btw nothing is easy as it seems to be. you wont get something you want until you fight for it no one else can do it behalf of you) I hope it get better twin.