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“I am a student of law and I've cleared my apo prelims exams and I'm preparing for mains exam I haven't completed my Syllabus yet my exam is on 27 dec and some uninvited relatives have come to my home 5 relatives I'm not able to study or follow my timetable my study room is completely occupied I'm a night owl and prefer studying at night I'm unable to do so I do go to the library but because of diwali it's closed till 11 Nov my relatives are here till 15 nov. I'm unable to memorize anything, do answer writing or study at all also I'm not getting my periods I have pcod my hormones are literally making me unnecessarily sad angry and overwhelmed I don't know what to do this exam is really very important for me I need this job anyhow My father's health is not going well and I just want to retire him”

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damn dude this sounds really hard and im really sorry to hear that. i get that you need to prepare for your exams, do you have any friends you crash, or any public vicinity such as a cafe i think shoudl work fine if you want to go and study, i think you shoudl tell your parents about this stress so that even if they get mad at you cos you havnt completed teh syllabus maybe they will be more understanidng if you go and lokc urseld in the room to study and wont scold you for not interacting with the guests. you can also go and study at your friend's house too. plus today is diwali you shud highk jsut rest and enjoy

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