“I am a person who overthinks almost everything, every interactions, etc. I get attached to people quickly and get hurt when they don't meet my expectations. I really need to stop this and want to detach, but love them completely and be there for them.”

Another soul answered...

As a person with the exactly the same case!? I would say from experience that instead of getting hurt ( i'm so sorry my description is terrible:)))))) ) just accept it and think, well they were just not the right one for me, and that's okay. You will get through it I promise :) we are in this togetherxxx

Another soul answered...

You know you can love someone completely and still be detached, first try to fill your own cup before filling anyone else' so you don't need anyone else's love or attention. However, don't expect to not get hurt when someone leaves, it's normal to get a bit hurt if someone leaves you because it shows that you care about them! I hope this helps :)

Another soul answered...

Set boundaries....