“I am a final year medical student i myself is not sure about my future because my parents aren't supporting me enough mentally and financially .They are cruel they made my childhood worse and because of them I had to choose this fuking medicine that i believed that i won't have time to fight like my parents and now I feel I am lost”
Scared about future and crying because of past
Not doing great in present
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“I am a final year medical student i myself is not sure about my future because my parents aren't supporting me enough mentally and financially .They are cruel they made my childhood worse and because of them I had to choose this fuking medicine that i believed that i won't have time to fight like my parents and now I feel I am lost” 
Scared about future and crying because of past 
Not doing great in present 
❤️  for reading waiting for your response

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

The best thing you can do for yourself is probably a few things:
1: Build a support network around yourself of other family members who are more understanding, or friends who you can share with. Building those relationships will take a little bit of time, but they will be worth it because you can talk through your troubles and sometimes receive financial help.

2: Forgive your parents and let go. Holding resentment can feel comforting sometimes, but it can make you bitter and angry, which can negatively affect your mental health. Just a note: Forgiveness is not absolving them of responsibility; it is saying that you hold no resentment. They still have to face the consequences of not having a deep or meaningful relationship with you, but you will be able to be happier and more content in being your own person.

3: There is nothing you can do about your past, but there is always something you can do about your future! You have done so much by going through medical school; it is a big undertaking, and being in your final year shows your determination and resilience! Recognise how much potential and greatness you have! Give to others who are in your same situation, comfort them and break the cycle of bitterness, become the role model and friend you would have dearly wished for in your life!

I hope everything goes well for you. Please remember to always be kind to yourself and to others, and never give up!