Someone once asked...

“I am a 2nd year college student,i don't have any friends or any network,I am under confident because of my appearance, I am unable to make friends, I see everyone with there friends entering hackathons, competitions, enjoying concerts and feel bad and behind in life because college life will never come back.what should I do??”

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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker

Dude (or dudess lol), I've been in the same space as you are right now. And trust me when I say this. Social validation isn't as important as it seems to be. Yes you feel lonely and by yourself, but it's actually a blessing in disguise. You have all your energy and time to work on yourself. Appearance and looks can be improved with a proper diet, exercise and wearing decent clothes and having a fresh haircut. That's all you need. And making friends is actually very easy. Just start with giving a genuine smile to people without expecting anything. Eventually you will make friends (and possibly one friend for life). And although it's true that your college life is a limited time, it doesn't mean that you won't enjoy your life post college. You can still go on trips, concerts, shows, dates etc, and it'll all be by your money lol. So just stop self pitying and start loving yourself (as they say in YJHD). All the best!

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Another soul answered...

I'm sorry to hear that.so much strength to you Hey whoever you are appearance is not a thing when it comes to friendship..if your feelings depressed wanting someone to talk make online frnds but that's not really a long term solution but it can make you feel better sometimes..but understand everyone you meet online is not your frnds and you won't end up good..I tried online frndships but ended up blocking many people Offline people are so better but understand that no everything is permanent some of the tips I can share 1. Try to talk with lots of people in your campus.. 2. BE CONFIDENT 3. Involve in those hackathon and all sought of events 4.try to be good in studies or atleast showcase your hobbies 5.talk with everyother branch sections and other gender 6.make peace with your appearance but if anything can improve it..DO IT!! ( Dressing/makeup/haircut) 7.find people who seem alone like you..and make them your frnd ( they will stick with you forever) 8.never ever share your past frndship break ups with anyone cause they will know the weakness..always behave as if you have many frnds 9.listen more and mirror there behaviour Heyyy there are lot of people and world is so big never let negativity get you.....as time passes everything will be on plate...there is a lesson you need to learn..and college teaches you that...om namah shivaya