“I am a 26 year old male. I have just recently gotten my Master's degree. I had not been interested in girls when I was getting my degree. When I graduated, I applied for Morgan Stanley and a lot of other companies but did not get in. A month ago, I had started getting worried about by job situation, though I have a small house my parents bought for me. I started going to bars late at night, and started talking to girls, even though I tried not to get in a relationship, my strategy of not buying anything for them was backfiring. Soon there was this one 24 year old girl who would always talk to me, and she eventually started coming to my house for an hour in the evenings, just to talk. Then one day when I was drunk, she said something like she would have to get a room for the night (There was a motel next to the bar) and I said "Why don't you come to my place?" Even though it was a one bedroom. So she crashed at my place that night. And I made her tell me that she had a really horrible housing situation with her parents forcing her and her younger siblings to each alternate days living with them. I had gotten a steady income by then, so I said, "Well, if you want you can live with me for a bit." And I only had one bed and basically no sofa or anything. Then yesterday, I'm working at my new job as an accountant, and I text her: 'Hi babe. Good day?' And she didn't respond. When I went home, her things are still there, but she's not. Just in the evening, she finally responded with a: 'Why don't we separate a while?' I didn't know what I did. I was completely normal with her, then she just says let's separate? I don't understand. But then today, she showed up at the bar with another man. She immediately came to me and said, "Look, I'm in another relationship. I'll get my things sometime. I just don't want you as a boyfriend anymore." I just totally don't understand it. She just crashes at my place for months then leaves me?”
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Someone answered with kindness...Thanked by the asker
Mannn you know you didn't do anything wrong right? Maybe she thinks that you are not the right man for her even after u helped her gave her shelter. But you know what?? She is the one at fault if she can leave you for other man then she will also leave that man for another and the this cycle will continue and she'll be doom one day.
So don't worry do your job. Try to become as good as you can. And don't overthink over things that are not in your control.
May you find a partner who can understand you and give you happiness.