“I am a 19 year old girl, and I have never dated anyone or anything, and I am completely okay with that. I am not in a rush to find anyone but I am also a very sensitive person, like I am very anxious about being sexually involved with someone, like I want to date and I want to build a connection with someone but I am also a person who would wait till marriage for anything too explicit. But I also don’t know if for guys or for anyone it’s the norm to just be okay with it. Because I am not and I feel that if someone really values me they would understand that.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
hey , i think its completely fine if u dont wanna be intimate too early with anyone , if a guy actually likes u he will definately understand ur opinion and comfort level , first of all i wanna say that its not inherently bad to be sexually involved with someone before marriage , so if u have a moral issue/discomfort with this idea u shouldnt be , but if its a general viewpoint of u then its completely valid , dw the guy u will end up with will truly understand it otherwise he is not ur guy