Someone once asked...

“I am a 17 year old but the biggest question that bugs me is will I ever find love because you see I have never talked to boys I felt anxious and scared and no one has ever asked me out or anything I see my friends getting asked out like men admit they openly have a crush on her in short I feel like the ugly best friend I am not jealous of her or anything but it stings me somewhere maybe it's the age But before my current friends the ones I used to have called me ugly,body shamed me,mocked my clothes even mocked the way I put lipstick on my current friends ask me why don't you put lipstick well how can I when those faces come to my mind as I look at lipsticks in stores the application makes my hands shiver I also have a fear of being seen maybe because my family and all those people around my life have only tried pulling me down”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Babe its gonna be ok. All you need is a new environment and emotionally intelligent people around you. People who mock others doent need your time or attention in your head so leave them in the past even if its difficult and hurts. Create new friends who are genuine and have Emotional intelligence not bullies and focus on yourself. If you wanna dress up do it! Dont wanna put some lip colour you dont have to! You are perfect the way you are! Wanna colour or put makeup do it girl it is art! No matter what make sure you look and seem beautiful in and out for yourself! And you have only one life remember that do the cringe and more! Love you

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Another soul answered...

Girl just try to walk from those red flags no drama nothing , everyone is gud in their wayy, so dont just let them u down , ur gud ur beautiful and most of all ur beautiful from inside , focus on ur skincare if its concerned issue visit dermat and yess u know who u aree , dogs always bark if u are beautiful or not or by jealous, so u dont need to take it personally just give their insults back dont let them mock u again , prove ur existence , u have loving parents just focus 0n what u like, talk to them or try to make understand them , and abt the dating part by the tym u will actually find ,Lipstick is not some sort of competition just try put on little day by day or maybe apply lipbalms or lipstains so just dont be anxious or scared just try to talk or try to smile or make conversations to him, focus on ur thing and u will see actually the real ones around u encouraging u , so yes have a gud day .

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