“I am 30 year old female and i dated this one guy for 10 years. He promised me he wants to marry me, live with me. We spent such good time together. He showed me how much he loved me all these years but since last one year he was acting very different , i could sense his lack if interest but i brushed it off as being busy now we fought one time and he said that he did not want to continue the relationship since he is not feeling the same way. So we broke up. It was very difficult for me. After 2 minths of no contact we had to talk again because of some reason and i found out he was cheating on me since 6 months while we were together. Now he is saying sorry and saying he realised his mistake and i am the perfect girl and he cannot think about anyone else and all that. What should i do”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Its quite hard, reading through this, I can not even imagine the pain and agony you are going through.
Its really criminal of him to put you through that pain and come back to you.
I dont even know if your heart to hear to what I say, but If he cheated on you once, he is gonna do it again in some way or the other.
Love lost also can be found in other ways but respect ? He disrespected you by putting you through that phase.
Just think of it this way, you guys reconcile, you gv him another chance and what happens.. you guys marry, have kids. Would you want your kids to hv a father like him?
You are the perfect girl, thats for sure, so be the perfect girl and do not let him back into your life.
God bless you and I wish you find and connect with a beautiful soul.