“i am 20 and theres a boy i met, online hes 18, we have been talking like besties, but he keeps sending me or showing me ,hinting me that he loves me, but i said that i dont do love things like i dont beileve , and then i was thinking of stop talking to him ,but he says that he understands feeling cant be mutual , we still talk , and send eachother eels, and hes too nice and seems mature,and like in between convo he ll dedicate me songs, and we have nicknames, hell send me love song videos, and also says in between texts that he loves me , or miss me ,i am sonfused ,what should i do ??like i said to him that i dont love him him, but what if i actually start getting attaaaaaached ,is it bad to love someone younger???”

Another soul answered...

have u ever talked to him in person or on call? is there any chance that you guys can meet and have chitchat over, because this is not merely an issue of age, the way you guys have met is diff than usual, so one must know what kind of person he or she is irl, and it's fine to love someone younger but meeting is required bro, irl we get yuck from random ppl that we can't smell from screens, I hope you get it, before making any commitment and getting more attached, find what you really desire, the responsibilities and everything, and from my own experience telling ya such things don't actually work it's just the tension between to ppl which makes it more intense, kill those butterflies with mosquito spray if needed

Another soul answered...

No it is not bad to love someone younger, but if you don't see a future with him, kindly stay away from being in a relationship with him ! specifically i would recommend not giving him false hope !

Another soul answered...

Ask urself , do u have feelings for him, do u like get butterflies when he does these things? Also, dont overthink. As long as he is not a minor , why would it be wrong to date him . Also , i think u have avoidant attachment, i think u should encounter ur feelings , dont ignore them.