Someone once asked...

“I am 19 years old and yet to experience my first love or girlfriend, is that normal for this generation? I deeply want to get in a relationship but not just with anyone, I still think that being in a relationship will be tiring but if the girl I love I'll be there no matter what, my friends suggest me to download dating app, should I ? Because idk how that works, and should I even be concerned at this stage of my life ? Where i already have a career pressure and the thought of "network is ur networth" type shit, too complicated yaar”

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Someone answered with kindness...

if i suggest you so first you have to focus on your career and about relationship you say 'that normal for this generation' but also in this generation there are so many toxic relationship as well as, some people get in relationship at very early age that relationship become their hole life part it might be in good way some time in wrong way as well, so basically my suggestion is that first focus on your career and about relationship wait for correct time when you find your true partner for your hole life, if you want a good relationship so....

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Another soul answered...

Hii, im 19 years old and I’ve also never had anyone. My friends also suggested dating apps. But I didn’t really get into that. Do you want to talk? Like would you be open to talk?

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Another soul answered...

I’d say choose your career. Everything else will be adjusted eventually trust me

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Another soul answered...

I'm 20 and I have never had a bf or anyone. It's normal. Don't listen to your friends I'd say. Yeah having a companion is nice but finding them at the right time of your life to protect your heart and peace is nicer. My advice is focus on career and build yourself so strong that in future you have a stable life. Trust me, you're the love you give so don't rush it. Give it time. It will find you when the time is right and when you'll truly need it. The right person will come along. Don't settle for the wrong one just so you won't be alone. Take care. Goodluck! -H

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