“I am 19
I have a friend kinda best friend idk
i used to share secrets with her talked alot with her but then
i slowly drift away you can say my vibe was not matching anymore she would me treat like a chat gpt and i was always listening to her problems or solving her dillemas
but she was not there for me genuinely when i need her like when i was talking about my problems she would be starting her own you know like she won't just lsiten to me quietly now i am just annoyed and irritated my mother is fighting a disease and she knows it but she would still ask where the hell i am what i am doing look my religion says that i should not share my life and goals with other people cuz they can get envious and jealous and its true .she does not have a mother
idk if i should keep this friendship or not
my mentor says i should not be the one leaving
i should listen to her problems
and not share anything of my own with her
i am so confused rn
also she haven't ask about my mom's health at all
she behaves like idk what should i say
i am so busy everyday but i still manage to talk to her despite doing chores
teaching and studying
and taking care of my mom
but rn she is not talking to me
she has maid for everything she is free usually
she does not understand my opinions and my life
WHAT SHOULD I DO😭😭
p.s English is not my first language”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I understand what that feels like and before doing anything u should really confront her about whatever u feel if she still doesn't understand then she ain't right for ur friendship . Cuz like u bcm an unpaid therapist just to be kindq looked over when u share ur own issues